Your Parenting Plan
A guide to making practical arrangements for your children if you live apart.
Books for Children
It's Not Your Fault, Koko Bear
by
Vicki Lansky, 1998
This is a 'read together' book for parents and young
children aged 3 to 7 years during divorce that helps to explain
words and feelings.
Dinosaur's Divorce
by
Marc Brown and Laurie Krasny Brown, 1988
For children aged 4 to 8 years, this book uses cartoon
dinosaur characters to cover topics such as 'why parents divorce',
'what will happen to me?', 'Living in two homes'.
The Huge Bag of Worries
by
Ironside and Rodgers, 2011
A popular story book for younger children about a
little girl who finds she is carrying an ever growing 'bag of
worries'. She finds there are lots of different ways of dealing
with or sharing worries.
Two of Everything
by
Babette Cole, 2000
This is a 'funny' book for children, from 6 to 12
years, that tells the story of parents being 'unmarried'.
When Mom and Dad Separate
by
Marge Heegaard, 1991
A workbook for children (5 to 12 years) to work out
their feelings about separation and divorce.
The Suitcase Kid
by
Jacqueline Wilson, 2006
This is a well told story about a girl and her rabbit
adjusting to life being a kid with divorced parents. For ages 8 to
teens.
It's an Aardvark eat Turtle World
by
Paula Danzinger, 2007
An entertaining read about two teenagers who were best
friends and become sisters after their parents fall in love, for
children 10 to 12 years.
Mom's House, Dad's House for Kids
by
Isolina Ricci, 2006
Designed for children 10 years and older, this book
helps children to learn about how their family is changing and
develop important life skills.
It's Not the End of the World
by
Judy Blume, 2011
This is a story about divorce and its' impact on family
life, from a teenage perspective. Written with insight, sensitivity
and honesty for ages 10 to teens.
What in the World Do You Do When Your Parents Divorce?: A
Survival Guide for Kids
by
Kent Winchester and Roberta Beyer, 2002.
Written to and for kids, in a simple question-and-answer
format, this book is a valuable tool for helping children cope with
separation.
"Makes me wonder how we ever managed without a proper plan for the school holidays."
"It wasn't so bad. It reminded me we used to talk a lot about all kinds of things. It's easier now when we do see each other."
"I liked that mum and dad both asked me what I think."
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